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Developmental Milestones…What’s the fuss?

If you are a parent or are around parents of young children, there is a high chance that you’ve heard about developmental milestones. You may have even read about it in a baby book or an article, heard from your paediatrician or from any other professional specialising in early childhood development. You may have heard parents proudly speak about the fact that their child has skipped certain milestones, such as crawling and has gone straight to walking, and so they’re now “ahead of the pack”. You may have seen the complete opposite, parents in a frenzy because their child is one month behind in some of their milestones. You may have heard others completely disregard milestones all together. So what is the fuss all about? How important are milestones really?


Milestones are the skills a child is expected to learn and be able to do by a certain age, similar to a checklist. Children don’t only grow and develop in size; milestones are included in all areas of your child’s development:

  • Physical development – This includes mastering the big and small muscles for movement, balance, coordination; e.g. needed for walking or holding a pencil and writing. It is also commonly known as gross and fine motor skills.
  • Social and emotional development – This is the child’s ability to form and maintain relationships. Relationships are needed to learn what is acceptable in social environments and what is not such as learning to take turns, fairness and cooperation. This in turn assists children with developing their self-esteem, control of their emotions and confidence. 
  • Cognitive development – This refers to the ability to learn and think in more complex ways which promotes the learning and understanding of different concepts. These concepts include recognizing colours, shapes, numbers and letters. As their cognition develops, children begin to ask more and more questions, especially the famous “Why?” which assists in their ability to problem solve and focus on specific tasks or objects, increasing their attention. 
  • Communicative development – Is the ability to understand language and communicate thoughts, emotions and needs verbally. As children develop they begin to participate more actively in conversations and look forward to telling and listening to stories. 
  • Adaptive skills – This is the child’s ability to adapt to the surrounding environment and everyday routines. Some examples of adaptive skills include a child learning to feed themselves with a spoon, dress themselves, go to the toilet independently, brush their teeth and clean up after themselves. 


The milestones of these various areas are expected to be reached in the same sequence for every child, for example in physical development, a child is expected to develop from rolling first, to sitting, to crawling, to standing and then to walking. Each skill is an important building block for the next skill, and it affects skills needed later on in life, including their learning ability in the classroom. This is not to say that if your child skips a milestone they will struggle with learning and other life tasks, some kids turn out perfectly fine. However, there has been extensive research that shows children being underdeveloped in certain skills, due to them skipping their milestones when they were younger. An example of this is crawling; there are numerous benefits for a baby to crawl before walking. 



Crawling encourages the development of:

  • Physical skills such as fine and gross motor skills, balance, coordination and overall muscle strength, these skills are all needed to assist with walking, running, writing, catching a ball or doing up buttons.
  • Spatial skills including the awareness of where the body is in space, what obstacles lie in the way (thus discovering distance and placement of objects) and how to manoeuvre around them. This helps with developing problem solving skills, essential for everyday life!
  • Determining the placement and distance of an object supports the development of vision. As the baby crawls they need to look down at where their hands are and back up at the objects in front of them, this encourages the eyes to work together and adjust to various distances. The ability to copy off a board and later on, drive is influenced by these early skills.
  • Mental skills: Crawling helps the Corpus Callosum, a part of the brain that connects the left and right hemispheres, develop in a balanced way. This is important as the Corpus Callosum is responsible for memory storage and retrieval, enhancing language and auditory functions as well as attention and arousal. Crawling also boosts your baby’s self-confidence as they become independent and go where they want to go.

This is an example of how just one milestone can affect so many different areas of your baby’s development, now think about all the other milestones your baby is expected to reach and the impact they have on skills and tasks carried out later on in life!


Play Time

So how do we encourage the development of milestones?


Through play children develop social relationships, keep the body and mind healthy, and learn about themselves and the world around them. Children get to explore, experiment and learn in their own time and space through play, they learn how objects work, give meaning and value to items in a world they create, they set goals and learn how to problem solve through active experiences. Play essentially allows for learning in all areas of development, and depending on the age and stage of development of your child, their stage of play will differ.

  • Infants participate in sensorimotor and explorative play, which allows them to learn how to use their bodies as well as to learn the effect of their actions on objects and the environment around them.
  • Toddlers participate in symbolic and simple constructive play, this focuses on functional play (representing real life with objects), simple pretend play, and simple construction e.g. build a tower.
  • Pre-schoolers participate in dramatic, complex constructive, and pregame play which includes dramatic role play and constructive play e.g. arts and craft, Lego.
  • School going children participate in games with rules, and develop an interest in sports or formal groups. It is important that children participate in age appropriate play, as this ensures the “Just Right Challenge”. By having the just right challenge, activities are not too easy that the child gets bored or doesn’t learn anything but it’s not too difficult either, which would result in the child getting frustrated and giving up, affecting his/her self-esteem. It is the perfect balance ensuring that your child learns and develops through play.

No need to stress!

It must be noted that not all children develop at the exact same time and it is normal for children to reach milestones earlier or later than their peers. It does not mean your child is “ahead” or “behind”, they’re developing at their own unique pace – this is so so important to remember! However, if you are concerned, it is advisable to visit your doctor or you are welcome to contact us to discuss your child’s development. 

    What’s next?

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